Sex And Power
Greetings EsaRa,
I would like to here your advice on how to get a better handle on our earthly desires such as sex and fascination of power?
-SN
Dear SN:
Ah, what a wonderful question you ask, and one that is perplexing to many. Sex and power do seem to go together, yes. But what is the reason for sexual contact? Is it for deeper intimacy, for communion, for communication, for ease of pain, for self esteem? What you ask, that is the first clue to unraveling the mystery of sex. We say that divine plan is for sex to be an act of giving of oneself, for deeper communion with each other and the force of energy that creates worlds.
You understand, it is only in the act of giving to another that you are truly allowing love to flow from you, and that, dear soul, is where you find your greatest joy, yes. If it is an act of getting, or for any other of the thousands of reasons human beings come up with, then it is really missing the greatest of divine gifts. Sexual contact can become a beautiful and wonderful way in which one is able to divinely express themselves to another being. It can become an even greater force or act of communion with God. That is truly its divine purpose, but more often than not we observe it is misused.
Power then comes into play, does it not? That great sexual energy that emerges from a beautiful woman or man is often used then to capture another. To hold them captive and not allow the freedom of divine expression to flow. Wouldn’t life be grand if you could have many, many experiences of giving in a sexual manner, and even more divine for that to explode forth from having one partner with which to explore all those experiences?
Are we then, angelic beings advocating monogamous relationships? From what we have observed, there are rarely those types of relationships where one is devoted to experiencing life with one partner and thus finds true happiness. That is more in line with the divine plan, but only those that truly devote themselves to expanding their conscious awareness of God, and exploring their true spiritual nature, seem to be able to bring forth their greatest joy with one person. We recommend that all endeavor to find that one person with whom they can create a history, and thus because of that, create a sacred place, a holy and safe environment with which to experience their communion with each other, and their expressions of God.
The quest for power stems from being disillusioned into thinking that you are separate from the real source of all power. One who is truly connected to their own divine power and source/ force, is in no need of expressing that power. They walk with no fear, and no need to exert their true power over another. They are humble in presence, compassionate and understanding, and in no way distracted by ego games or plays.
We have often said that if you but knew who walked by your side, you would never have fear. A show of power is very, very fear based. It is our sincere desire, dear one, that you, during this life experience, know true divine power and sexual expression. Allow yourself to give love on all levels– including sexual intimacy.
We are incomplete without your being,
-EsaRa